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| If something goes wrong, when
you meet; Be kind but honest. Not too honest. If you find the
person revolting, don't tell them that. You could possibly also
run into a psycho, who might complicate your life. Usually, if
some alarm bells are going off during your first impression, call
it off.
A good line is; "You're a very nice
person, but I am not feeling any chemistry, and that's important
to me."
It doesn't say anything about their looks or
anything bad about them as a person.
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| Okay so the formalities are out
of the way, and you are going to meet up.
A good place to do this is a
public and discreet coffee shop. It is a safe environment for both
parties. Especially in the event that a prospective date, has
misrepresented themselves.
If you both are happy with the
meeting, often it can progress to the sexual encounter, directly
from that first meeting. If not you can arrange a future date for
your sexual affair, at that time.
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| Looks and safety. If you find
that your "person" has lied completely or that you feel
unsafe, meeting in a public venue, will give you the chance to be
a no-show, or just keep walking on by. You could also ask a
trusted friend to come with you, if you are very unsure, and have
them "wait in the car for a few minutes." A good excuse
to cut and run, should you need to! |
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